04 February, 2010

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HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL HUSBAND





DRESS UP FOR YOUR WIFE. LOOK CLEAN AND SMELL GOOD.
- When was the last time men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to lokk nice for him , she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Nabi Muhammad s.a.w always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smell.



USE THE CUTEST NAMES FOR YOUR WIFE.
Nabi Muhammad s.a.w had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.




DON'T TREAT HER LIKE A FLY
We never think a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarily, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband, until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this, recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.




IF U SEE WRONG FROM UR WIFE,
TRY TO BE SILENT AND DO NOT COMMENT
This is one of the ways Rasul Allah used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives. It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.




SMILE AT YOUR WIFE WHENEVER U SEE HER
AND EMBRACE HER OFTEN.
Smilling is sedaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Hadith when Nabi Muhammad s.a.w would kiss his wife before leaving for solat, even if he was fasting.




THANK U 4 ALL DAD SHE DOES 4 U.
THEN THANK HER AGAIN!
Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home and adozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receivees is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be , thank her !




ASK HER 2 RITE DOWN THE LAST 10 THINGS YOU DID 4 HER
DAD MAKE HER HAPPY.
Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. U don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in ur life.




DON'T BELITTLE HER DESIRES.
COMFORT HER.
Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah set the example for us in a accident when Safiyyah was crying because , as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her and brought her the camel.




BE HUMOROUS
AND PLAY GAMES WITH UR WIFE.
Look at Nabi Muhammad s.a.w would race his wife Aishah in the desert. When was the last time you all men did something like dad?




ALWAYS REMEMBER THE WORDS OF ALLAH'S MESSENGER
Nabi Muhammad s.a.w bersabda "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family"


In cOncLuSiOn :


nEvEr 4gEt 2 mAkE dOa 2 ALLAH
2 MaKe yOuR mArRiAgE sUcCeSsFuL

4 comments:

Yunus Badawi said...

Terima kasih berkongsi.

Semoga kita semua dikurniakan keluarga yg bahagia sehingga akhir hayat.

AZANI said...

salam pB
dengan segala kekurangan yag ada, saya cuba gembirakan ibu anak anak dengan apa yang saya mampu...

MULAN said...

amiiiinn... timo kasih pb.. kongsi citer ni..

Kak Nora said...

Semoga "you all men" muhasabah diri setelah membaca posting ini. TK pB.

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